Influence and Persuasion
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Day 1- Introduction3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 2 - Why is Persuasion possible?3 Sessions|2 Quizzes
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Day 3 - The ends are extreme3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 4 - Weapons of Influence3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 5 - The 2nd Weapon of Influence3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 6 - The 3rd Weapon of Influence3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 7 - The 4th Weapon of Influence3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 8 - The 5th Weapon of Influence3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 9 - The 6th Weapon of Influence3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 10 - Advertisements1 Quiz
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Day 11 - FITD and DITF3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 12 - The Power of Because...3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 13 - Halo there?3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 14 - The nonverbal aspect of Persuasion3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 15 - Whatever prevails3 Sessions
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Day 16 - Q_ _ Z!1 Quiz
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Day 17 - NLP2 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 18 - Asking the right questions2 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 19 - Rapport3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 20 - Rapport3 Sessions|1 Quiz
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Day 21 - Final revision2 Quizzes
Session 1 – The Power of because
[vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516427422336{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]While making requests, there’s an interesting technique you can use to garner compliance or approval almost every time you use it.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]It’s known as the ‘Power of because’ technique.[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text]
[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]The following experiment by the behavioral scientist Ellen Langer and her colleagues demonstrate the working of this technique:
Ellen Langer set up 3 scenarios:
[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]1) A stranger approaches someone waiting in line to use a photocopier and simply asks,”Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine?” Sixty percent of people agreed to allow the stranger to cut in line when faced with this direct request.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]2) Next, a stranger made the same request but added a reason: “May I use the Xerox machine, because I’m in a rush?” Nearly everyone (94 percent) agreed.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]3) Finally, the stranger approached and gave a totally senseless reason for the request, but still employed the word ‘because’: “May I use the Xerox machine, because I have to make copies?” Despite the inanity of the reason, 93 percent of people still complied with the request.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]So, this social experiment clearly demonstrates that we are more likely to comply with someone’s requests if we are given reasons even if they sound ridiculous.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]The reason the use of the word ‘because’ increases the chances of compliance is due to the fact it tricks your brain into believing that a reason is provided.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]Even if the reason is ridiculous, the brain accepts it because, at that very moment, it doesn’t process it fully.
So, this is one of those ‘shortcuts’ or ‘stereotypes’.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row css=”.vc_custom_1516069665453{margin: 10px !important;background-color: #0098ba !important;border-radius: 15px !important;}”][vc_column][vc_column_text]Of course, nothing works with 100% success rate.
Even the original experiment drew some refusals. That’s how it works!
So, this brings us to the conclusion of today’s 1st session.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]